What Matters?


Who you are,what you feel, what you think “MATTERS”

1peter 5:7


Why hide?


I can pretend to be positive & even hide my negative feelings but the reality is I’m neither of them!
Because I’ve put it all in writing….

A passion, the key to overcoming a writers block…..

The book

1st chapter , verse 31 from the “book” 20120920-222834.jpg

Education, religion and politics

isn’t the cause of world problems

“EGO” is though & the lack of contribution or distribution toward “human need”

“Less is more”

Building blocks of friendship


Today I don’t want to reduce anything from the Almightiness of our God however my recent experience & relationship with God has changed why?

I guess God does different thing at different times for different reasons for growth, for testimonies & blessing.

The dynamics of my life is changing however the promises of God remains the same as I will declare how faithful he has been in this time of my life.

I would like to do a simple contrast looking at friendship with God & friendship on a human level

The whole point of this is to reflect on the core values of the friendships that we currently value.

Friendship that leads to God

1) appreciation for everything
God isn’t prejudice.

2) A genuine love for righteousness

3) A repentant & forgiving heart

4) A student of Gods wisdom dependent on his understanding.

5) A hospitable attitude accommodating others

6) A union with the Holy Spirit

How can we build a good friendship with people

1) respect in terms of humanity

2) common interest-what do you share

3) genuine interest-valued well being of other-sincere.

4) open interest-willing to learn some thing new or embrace a new perspective

5) Synergy-producing a outcome with others that couldn’t be done alone.

6) knowing the boundary respecting the limits

Any level towards a code of conduct is important in work,friendships and how we manage the issue & difficulties in relationships which I believe truly matters.

•How much are you aware of core values towards your friendships or do you just take people as they come?

•What are you conscious of in your relationship with God,I remember a story how David had the opportunity to kill king Saul & has heart smite him as he heard “touch not my anointed”

Well thanks for stopping by I hope you got something out of it.

Many blessing ~

The battle

Has anyone ever fought for you to defend you?

Who would put there life on the line for your interest or you well being?

Is life often unbearable…well


Exd 14:14 The LORD will fight for you
you need only to be still.

“Fellowship is life”


I was asked by a close friend to remember their concerns in prayer, as TRUSTING people often becomes a difficult task.

After some reflection ~ the wisdom of God spoke to me!

It’s Impossible to TRUST anyone if you haven’t learnt the secret of TRUSTING
GOD first

PROV 3:5


“Fellowship is life”

We know in part.. Be wise how you share it


Now the Bereans were of more noble in character than the Thessalonians, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true.
Acts 17:11

I guess we know this story well enough to know Paul & silas arrived at the place called Berea spreading the massage of the gospel however when Paul arrived he saw object of worship and this inscription saying “To the unknown God

In Athens Greek philosophers admired and loved these idea’s and myths unfortunately with no substance to their idea’s the people trusted in object in relation to worship.

What I like about the apostles approach as he address the audience he said, adding to there belief…

Act 17:22 Then he stood up in the meeting of the Areopagus and said: “Men of Athens! I see that in every way you are very religious.

The Apostle Paul empathised with the people as he spoke acknowledging their way of life. What i liked about this encounter was the fact Paul had also some thing to add to what they believed. However we must remember
how important it is to communicate truth with the right spirit which could determine how people respond.

Leadership & life coaching has taught me how important it is for me to add value to people through connecting

As Paul continues his speech
He says…

Act 17:23 For as I walked around and looked carefully at your objects of worship, I even found an altar with this inscription: TO AN UNKNOWN GOD. Now what you worship as something unknown I am going to proclaim to you.

Adding to what the Berea’s knew only cause them to search the scripture all the more, checking if what he said was true.

To become so culturally root in any belief can be limiting because truth is eternal without any limits.
New ways of learning and thinking should be celebrated. I guess finding context or new context for any truth is powerful & life changing.

In conclusion

He sets aside the first to establish the second ~ Hebrews 10:9 This statement was referring to the legal requirements of the law no longer valid as he said ” sacrifices & offering I didn’t desire however & forever the system has been changed but the purpose of God remains the same….

“Fellowship is life”

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