Dawning of a new day


This year has been a major set back for me considering how I started writing with a passion also the intent to establish a new Career for the benefit of my family,unfortunately it didn’t materialise as planned, however
my core in regards to spiritual truth has been challenged throughout the divorce process watching how destructive this severing between us has killed a part of two people who once were one, however the God of all comfort has given me peace also he has taken charge of my life with the assurance that he is the giver of real life which is immaterial & eternal, praise be to the name of JESUS CHRIST now & forever more.
Many thanks to you all who has crossed my path with rebuke correction with joy and praise for the sincere post not to say that one has attained never the less the passion without the excellence of grammar was evident.
My biggest challenge will always be submission to what The Lord now require of me as a single man destined to serve throughout my life experience
& the knowledge of his truth.
Why I’m writing today reflects the dawning of a revelation of the relationship between man & woman

After the fall in the garden every one at the “seen of the crime” had to bear their own conceqences…

Gen 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

The curse in this scripture seem to be a blessing in the sense of governmental order in terms of the family structure however it also shows me two sides of the coin from a male and female perspective from the male view Adam brought himself under the governance of sin or satan in this action of disobedience & the beautiful women eve was now subject to the man’s Authority.
When my wife decided to lye down with
another man she brought herself under the control or rule of this individual from a spiritual view point, from a biblical view can i relate this point?

The Lord said to Cain before he killed his brother “sin desires you but you shall rule other it” Gen 4v7

Our struggle isn’t against flesh & blood
But the ruling powers of wickedness & the unGodly influenced within our social structures from the top down.
In Rom 6 Paul in a non judgemental view articulates this by breaks it down in this teaching

Rom 6:16 Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?

Rom 6:17 But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you.

Rom 6:18 Being then made free from sin, ye became the servants of righteousness.

So now my journey is about being subject to the power of Christ in the midst of a cooked & perverse world whom we now shine as lights as I search for a specific role in his plans & purpose for me as i redefine myself not by some one but who Christ says that I am.

Many blessing with the abounding power of his grace toward you whats left of this year
& the year to come especially for families husbands & wife pastors and leaders, single men & women who know how much we all need The Lord.


Something to watch!!
The sin that lead to death


What Matters?


Who you are,what you feel, what you think “MATTERS”

1peter 5:7

Look for the key!


Looking at some one or understanding some one can be miles a part ~ so, seek first to understand & wait to be understood.

We only have the power to change our own attitudes

So…how do i become a better person

•Don’t avoid the journey that builds character

visualise your outcome “

Always ask yourself proactive questions..

“leave the rest to God” in prayer.

“Life life with definition”
By: Pjgracecommunity

Communicate to connect

This is one humorous videos that brings the message home!

communication is a art that consist of many important key points like ~ active listening a objective Frames of reference
Empathy ~ being non judgemental, confidential, Trust and Understanding in a broad sense….

John Maxwell’s principle of Communicating to connect is a matter of learning the different styles of effective communication to be better and to become better…. Managing our daily relationships.

relative post

How to disagree with your boss Pt2 ~ five steps.
Life & career coaching with Marie wetmore.wordpress.com

Mastering the art of communication ~ husband & wife
T.R&B Shockley.wordpress.com

I’m not suggesting that relationship can be difficult

The struggles of family life

“live with definition”

Pt3..Everything Matters


“Everything Matters”

even when we can’t make any sense of it all.

The only thing that’s different is the
context” we give to our experiences.

“Be encouraged”

Reframing without words

Today is a “brand” new day

Life isn’t on pause

As a life coach and a born again Christian it’s my duty to live the life, now i can share the pudding of my experiences. I hope the flavours arouse you taste buds to paint the picture of a greater out come and a brighter future for you and the world around you!

I pray God grace will over shadow OUR steps into his greater certainty & hope ps 37:23

I hope you enjoyed these three post birthed from being ~ Madly annoyed!!

“Less is more” but everything matter before God..

Three broken pieces!


2Cr 4:8 We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not forsaken!

Early one morning as i took a walk to the corner shop, I saw two boy’s arguing, they were about eleven years old, as I over heard the conversation one of them had broken or damaged the chain & gear’s on his friends brand new bicycle. As I looked right there, I saw the gear’s twisted up & the chain on the floor, the disappointment on that boy’s face said it all.

How relevant is this to life? Sentimental things get broken, emotions get damaged in the mismanagement of relationships, after to find the strength to reconstruct what’s been broken or damaged. This is the reality of people’s lives, fighting to get though the day to fight again another day. I suppose only then you realise one’s strength or weaknesses that only give us a clearer view where we are & what we need to do, to move forward.

As I looked at the bicycle and the boys disappointment reminded me of my own experience In 2009 after a major family break down which lead to a deep sense of brokenness, after to discover that those pieces that were broken needed to be redefined, that’s why on my post I some times quote “live life with definition” that’s what I did, redefined myself with the help of Gods Grace.

Now my services as a life coach serves from the heart and not the head.
When I think about my saviour I often think about his brokenness, just like mine. The word of God describes three pieces of a major puzzle that says there are the pieces that remains faith, hope and love but the greatest of them all is love. Love fuelling hope & faith which leads us to the eternal quality called love. Three broken pieces redefined in Christ, faith, hope and love through a personal relationship with God.

Three broken pieces! my life experience.

“Live life with definition”



some people need a hug! ~ earlier post.

Friend may come & friend may go, as a fox by night returns to its hole

The only memories that remains is like a clear canvas so descriptive & yet so rough around the edges

To my surprise there’s so much colour, as each part teaches me about each other

I gather my thoughts with introspection as am aware its just a lesson

Did I achieve anything by giving recognition to those who came into my life

Well on reflection didn’t we shared the same ambition…or were we blinded by just another mission

Its not a bad thing when we try to question, to see our hearts real intention

So what’s your view about this thing called ambition or is it self, just seeking for recognition

Well if it’s true, that’s major lesson, like the wilderness with no clear distinction.

I see you going backward and forward i can feel your hurting, while the most important memories of the past like the air slowly dissipating.

If a broken human being can smile from the heart, Gods intention will never depart…

©Copyright 2012 written by:Peter Johnson

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